1) The Concepts leading to Option II

Your body language reflects your feeling about your innate value. Then it is up to you to understand and decide about your self-esteem. If you don't make a committed inner effort to position yourself thus, it won't matter what else you learn. Women typically tend to be more perceptive about the resulting integrity than men, and better at detecting if others are faking it. It is infinitely more effective to live with Option II than faking your image under Option I. There are distinct stages that everyone goes through to build self-esteem:

- It begins with you understanding your innate value and then, using the 222-concept;

- within 2 days, reassure  yourself that it is true in the sense that it leads to the Life- through Task-Fulfillment for which you are here.

- Then it is a matter  of following-up this inner insight within 2 weeks: Explain to others what you have understood and have worked out for them in a reproducible way.

- And then, you have to make your self-esteem so formally solid that there’s no doubt in your mind that it’s a fact.

- Even if you are presented with a seemingly contrary evidence by those who cannot but try to falsify every substance, you must do what it takes to be so genuinely confident in the belief that you don’t abandon it.

- The proof of the pudding is, that you learn to be able to prove your point within 2 months in regard to the unavoidable challenges. Then most people will associate your new value with you. After all, why change something that works in your favor?

A child summed it up: I read and listen, I reflect it, repeat it by speaking it out aloud, and then check whether what I said is congruent with what I read and was told. 

This is your challenge: If you want to change a negative appearance to a positive one, you’ll first have to challenge the validity of the negative beliefs you hold, for it it the truth that sets you free!

Accept the truth, once you have disproved your old belief, then proceed  as outlined above. Then you will have to see if your actions are projecting your integrity successfully and whether you can state your values as a FACT in normal conversations. Otherwise you catalyze other people’s insecurities, and that can end up with bad news.

Feedback: After you proclaim your belief you’ll have to gauge the reactions of other people. That helps you to become even more honest and specific with your belief. Ultimately, real people, such as a woman who is looking for a man who is more valuable today than he was yesterday, will look for those who will be more valuable tomorrow than today, just as successful businesses do in terms of their pro! And this is not about money or fame. Focus on the imagined self-esteem that you are worth more and thereby deserve more. If you feel that they're improving everyday, you are truly attractive, and when you deliver, people trust you. Just keep in mind that insecurities are only unattractive when you hide them or you ignore them. You’re going to have to get over them eventually because that’s part of what becoming more valuable means. However if you try to conceal what is still not right, or pretend that nothing like that exists, you disqualify yourself and attract those who do not want to be alone doing the same thing: Birds of a feather flock together. Embrace your insecurities, but make sure you’re always working towards diminishing insecurity.

Beyond improving your self-esteem, you also must learn how to read the value of other people. There’s a relatively simple way to figure out what level of self-esteem and value everyone around you is operating from. Then it is a matter of knowing how to handle people on different value levels. The first step is obvious: you must assess a person’s actions in terms of its dynamic. Then you must find out the underlying intention and the driving motivation for acting in that manner until you know what they want.

Top-Down: As soon as have figured out their state of mind and what they want in it, give it to them in a way they feel valued enough to grow from where they come from to where they really want to go: Go down to them to bring them up to the top, then you will experience fulfillment by moving a step ahead of them. Otherwise OPTION I mass-attractivity will put down everyone under it...